Why  hate ?

So this is a really big topic for me. Not only for me but everyone else. Hate is not just a very strong word , but a very mean action towards someone. Hate can be sending a very mean message , tweet or email to another person you dislike for no reason and It can be trying to  cause harm to another person just to see them suffer. In today's society many people hate for idiotic reasons. Many people hate on others because they have something you dont, hate because of fame , hate because of fortunate looks ,and much more. Instead of hating why not do something nice for yourself or others. You can do something to help the society become better instead of sending hate and making the society more wicked than it already is. Hating someone won't make you have whatever it is that they have that you don't , it won't make you better looking , it won't give you fame and absolutely won't make you better than them.
Things you can do instead of hate
1. Volunteer there are many places where you can help. You can volunteer to help out at a nursing home , a library , a shelter , a hospital , a social event , school activities , you may also volunteer to go on a mission trip ,and much more. You can at least help out for 2-3 hours or as much as you can. Volunteering won't only be a good way to help out it also gives you experience and you can also start earning volunteer hours.

          
2. Respecting others wether at school , home or at a social gathering. You should respect people.
The #1 people you should respect should be your parents because they are the ones who love you take care of you and give you everything you need . If you don't respect your parents what makes you think you'll  respect others. You should start respecting your parents . When you start respecting your parents it will be easier to respect others. You wouldn't want anyone disrespecting a loved one would you? I'm guessing the answer is no!

3. Not judging others in today's society the #1 thing people are doing that is wrong is judging. Who are you to judge? Are you god? Are you superior ? Are you perfect? The answers are all No. Many people judge appearance , beliefs , likes , dislikes , culture , and much more. This applies to everyone it doesn't matter what religion you are what culture what race you should not judge. Luke 6:37

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.

4. Change something you don't like about yourself many times people hate others because they look better or whatever reason it is . Do something to make you feel better about yourself . Get a hair cut , get a manicure , buy clothing that makes you feel good about yourself , go out with friends , and much more things that make you enjoy your life instead of hating another person.
            

5. Do not hate do not send a mean tweet , a mean email , a mean text message or even a hateful voicemail to someone. Compliment them instead find something nice in a neither person not something bad. We all have flaws why not find the beauty in others.

Being in a fan base affects your grades

       Just to begin with I am not saying that everyone that is in a fan base has bad grades. So to begin with Ill tell you my personal experience.Throughout the time that I have been a Directioner ( one direction fan) I have noticed that the hardcore fans are the ones greatly affected . The hardcore fans are greatly affected because they spend time stalking their idols for hours , procrastinating just like Every other teen , listening to their idols music for hours , not studying ,sleeping very late , staying awake to spam for a follow from their idol and much more. All these examples affect grades because not completing homework causes you to get a zero. Not studying causes you to fail you tests/exams.  Sleeping late causes you to not have enough energy to stay awake in class to be able to learn.

I am a hardcore fan my grades went down by a great percentage.my grades went down  Because I stayed up late to stalk , I didn't study and much more . I just wanted to see what was going on ,what one direction was doing , where they were and I also wanted a follow. It was very hard to stay away from twitter and not see what was going on. Then I realized that my grades are very important for my future. So I stopped.  although I do check whats up on twitter I give my self limits. Because of giving my self limits my grades have improved. So girls and boys out there your future is very important and your grades make up a huge part of it.

Even if my grades dropped because of excessively "stalking" they make me very happy. Thanks to them many girls and boys are still here today.


Thanks for reading
Feel free to comment and suggest any topics
~Ornela